Life is jam-packed with emotions! You experience traumatic events in life, and your stores emotions and memories from them within yourself… These trapped emotions impact you in VERY real ways years after the initial trauma. That phenomenon is at the crux of vaginismus. After your brain creates an association of penetration to pain, you’re left …
What Is Internal Trigger Point Release Of The Pelvic Floor?
How quickly when you get a kink in your neck do you notice it? Pretty immediately right? I mean, it SCREAMS for attention. If you sleep wrong and wake up with a sore neck, you’d take action and give yourself a well-deserved massage, am I right? Or use your puppy eyes and ask your partner …
Hemp Seed Oil For Healing
I recall very clearly that especially at the beginning of my vaginismus dfiays, my dilating practice was as pleasant as nails dragging along a chalk board. I made MANY mistakes. I now help vulva owners avoid my mistakes (and my misery). Just to name a few… I didn’t follow the golden rule of “avoid pain …
The PMS Chronicles
Pissed off and in pain. That’s the slogan of the PMS chronicles. Have you found yourself debilitated by the pain of pre-menstrual cramps? Unable to go about your day as you planned, because your body is just not co-operating? This lack of co-operation once a month can be quite frustrating, especially when your body is …
Kegels For PUH-leasure
The day I discovered kegel balls was an exciting one! When I found this tool at a sex store I visited, the store clerk explained that doing certain exercises, or even just walking around with the ball inside your vagina actually help strengthen and tone your vaginal pelvic floor muscles. I also learned that this …
Dilators For Internal Trigger Point Release
I’m laying on my bed with a wand resting in my vagina. I grit my teeth and find myself holding my breath… Then I remember to breathe through the discomfort and to allow my body to relax. “This will be so worth it”, I think. I already know that this technique has given me incredible …
A Tiny (And Tickly) Tip To Help You Reconnect With Your Sexuality
Have you been missing pleasure and sensuality in your life lately? I can imagine that… Vaginismus served as a bulldozer, uprooting and discarding all the sexual desire you had built up. And when all the sexual desire was gone, it sprinkled seeds of sadness and repulsion about intimacy altogether. Yeah, I’m speaking from personal experience. …
Perfect Pleasure Partner For Those With Pelvic Pain
Pelvic pain. It’s NOT what you asked for. In your teens, thinking about what sex would feel like was so exciting, mysterious, and raw. And the pain you encountered out of the blue felt like someone stuck a knife in the back of your teenage fantasies! Disappointment washed over you. Fear of the unknown. The …
Regain Control Of Your Pelvic Floor Muscles
You’re on the vaginismus journey. You’ve been through thick and thin. You’ve decided to take action and undergo the necessary emotional healing and physical therapy in order to work up to having penetrative sex. And you’ve made progress! You’ve been able to gain partial control of your pelvic floor muscles and achieve some penetration. In …
A Hint Of Pleasure In The Midst Of Painful Sex
For many vulva owners struggling with painful sex and vaginismus in particular, a daily practice with dilators is often part of the healing journey… *If you’re asking yourself “What are dilators?”, you might first want to read about how dilating can help on your journey in healing vaginismus. But dilating can be an incredibly uncomfortable …