It was a Saturday afternoon. My best friend and I were walking up one of the busy streets of downtown Toronto, heading to a special kind of studio. We had been to a class like this once before, and left with some bruises on our legs and arms. And that was just the beginner class. …
The Magic Of Body Massage For Overcoming Vaginismus
A few weeks ago, my partner had surprised me with a massage table. Early this morning, my wake-up call was his warm embrace, followed by a whisper in my ear… “If you get your gorgeous body on the massage table in the next 15 minutes, you’re in for a treat.” Mmm-hmm. Am I dreaming? With …
Tiny But Mighty Vibes – My First Vibrator Experience
I have a confession. I never before used vibrators… But the dilators I used in my journey of overcoming vaginismus had a vibrating feature! Now THAT was a game changer. *And if you’re asking yourself “What are dilators?”, you might first want to read about how dilating can help on your journey in healing vaginismus. …
My Parents Gifted Me A Set Of Dilators To Help With Vaginismus… But I Wish I Got Ones Like These Instead
One day, my parents came home with a dark grey bag with a pink heart on it. It was a pivotal-event in my life… In a “Shh, no one else needs to know”-kind of way, they said they bought something for me. I was confused… I hadn’t expected that literally a day after I shared …
The Biggest Mistake You May Be Making As Vaginismus Is Shattering Your Soul
The thought of penetration hurts. And the act of penetration KILLS, wouldn’t you agree? All of us humans experience both emotional and physical pain in one way or another. Unfortunately, this kind of super private, painful experience is the one that both you and I got stuck with. We drew that card. And I have …
My First Time Experience Using Bath Oil
I’ve used those colourful bath bombs before… Like the ones that blew up the internet at one point – with the ring surprise inside? Those were exciting at first, but the aftermath just wasn’t worth it. At the end of my bath, my bathtub was covered in a layer of sparkles and slime. Great. All …