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Typical plastic dilators. Ugh. I wish I used more comfortable dilators than my plastic set! I didn’t know better and, well they were a gift… From my PARENTS of all people! They willingly went a sex store, inquired with the sex store clerk all about their daughter’s ‘sex problem’ and brought these babies home. I …
How quickly when you get a kink in your neck do you notice it? Pretty immediately right? I mean, it SCREAMS for attention. If you sleep wrong and wake up with a sore neck, you’d take action and give yourself a well-deserved massage, am I right? Or use your puppy eyes and ask your partner …
I first heard about dilators at an appointment I really wasn’t looking forward to… You see, I was lucky enough to be able to have the opportunity to see a sex therapist, thanks to my boyfriend at the time’s parents (and their employment benefits). Although I can’t say my experience at the sex therapist’s office …
My own experience with vaginismus inspired me to write Debbie Does Dilators. – Savannah Magruder, Writer/Director, award-winning filmmaker Watch the film here! And below is Savannah’s personal story and inside scoop about the film… After several years of struggling with the condition – enduring excruciatingly painful sex, being patronized and misdiagnosed by dismissive doctors, and …
I’m laying on my bed with a wand resting in my vagina. I grit my teeth and find myself holding my breath… Then I remember to breathe through the discomfort and to allow my body to relax. “This will be so worth it”, I think. I already know that this technique has given me incredible …
For many women struggling with painful sex and vaginismus in particular, a daily practice with dilators is often part of the healing journey… *If you’re asking yourself “What are dilators?”, you might first want to read about how dilating can help on your journey in healing vaginismus. But dilating can be an incredibly uncomfortable and …
I have a confession. I never before used vibrators… But the dilators I used in my journey of overcoming vaginismus had a vibrating feature! Now THAT was a game changer. *And if you’re asking yourself “What are dilators?”, you might first want to read about how dilating can help on your journey in healing vaginismus. …
The thought of penetration hurts. And the act of penetration KILLS, wouldn’t you agree? All of us humans experience both emotional and physical pain in one way or another. Unfortunately, this kind of super private, painful experience is the one that both you and I got stuck with. We drew that card. And I have …
One day, my parents came home with a dark grey bag with a pink heart on it. It was a pivotal-event in my life… In a “Shh, no one else needs to know”-kind of way, they said they bought something for me. I was confused… I hadn’t expected that literally a day after I shared …
I was awkwardly sitting on an arm chair in a well-lit office, with my sex therapist across from me and a tissue box expertly positioned on the coffee table between us. That’s the day I heard about dilating. She explained that dilators are tube-shaped tools that you can use to help achieve sexual penetration. It …