Do you feel that burning… And the pain? What IF your lubricant actually helped your muscles relax and even soothed the stabbing sensation you feel? You see, lubricant to a set of dilators is like the cheese to a good bowl of macaroni. You can’t get enough of it. *If you’re asking yourself “What are …
How To Kip Up An Experience Of Pleasure With Dilating
You might not the type to just go out and buy a vibrator… I know I wasn’t. I was a bit curious about vibrators, but not enough to trek to a sex store for one or buy it online either. A part of me thought I just SHOULDN’T indulge in this sexual pleasure, especially with …
6 Lessons Of The Vaginismus Journey – A Brave Soul’s Story Of Resilience
I struggled with vaginismus for as long as I can remember and did not find out about the existence of this condition until a couple of years ago. Growing up in a very religious and conservative family, I was never really encouraged to explore my body. I started worrying when I got my period and …
Be A Lady They Said
5 years ago, if I watched this video, I would have anger pulsing and flowing through me. 😡 Anger blanketed towards our societal experiences as humans in the world. The expectations that are thrown at both vulva and penis owners (and especially vulva owners as ‘sex symbols’) – expectations of who we SHOULD be in our lives. …
Painting With Chocolate To Sweeten Your Sex Life? Even If You’re Bitter About Vaginismus…
What is the biggest disappointment you’ve experienced? One of the most memorable ones for me is feeling like a failure because I couldn’t go all the way in the bedroom. Vaginismus can do that to you… It can make you feel incomplete. Inadequate. A sorry definition of a human who couldn’t give her partner what …
I Overcame My Vaginismus Within A MONTH
I am someone who has never used a tampon or had any vaginal checkups before my marriage. I got married in 2017 and had a very painful experience when I and my husband tried for PIV sex for the first time. It was very painful during penetration and penetration was almost impossible. I told my mom …
How The ‘Darkness’ Of Your Sexual Desires Can Shed Light On Vaginismus
At its greatest level of intensity and domination, what does this picture scream to you? Deep down for you, this scene might be associated with naughtiness… Secrecy… Sexual arousal… Excitement! And even joy!! But do you also have a sense of guilt and shame attached to these positive emotions? You see… Similar to the 5 …
Thankfully Katrin Made Me Motivated And Brave Enough To Go For It
For weeks I have never had the courage to really face the fight against vaginismus. I had bought dilators a few weeks ago but didn’t plan on using them any time soon. But then I took a social media break and focused on myself for some time. I have followed Katrin’s Instagram account for a …
Magnetic Dilators? How They’re Different Than Other Sets
Typical plastic dilators. Ugh. I wish I used more comfortable dilators than my plastic set! I didn’t know better and, well they were a gift… From my PARENTS of all people! They willingly went a sex store, inquired with the sex store clerk all about their daughter’s ‘sex problem’ and brought these babies home. I …
It’s Like You Know Me!
Thanks for being willing to be vulnerable and share about your problem in order to help other women like me. I loved how easy it was to read your book. It only took me a couple of hours to finish it! The cover is discreet enough with the lovely flower on it. You included some …