Helping you put vaginismus in the past, for good
At its greatest level of intensity and domination, what does this picture scream to you? Deep down for you, this scene might be associated with naughtiness… Secrecy… Sexual arousal… Excitement! And even joy!! But do you also have a sense of guilt and shame attached to these positive emotions? You see… Similar to the 5 …
Experiences are the essence of life and wisdom… That’s why I urge you to seek out mentors in life, seek those people who are further ahead on the same path you’re on. People who have been where you are now. And have moved ahead with joy and excitement. People with relevant experience! And there are …
Life is jam-packed with emotions! You experience traumatic events in life, and your stores emotions and memories from them within yourself… These trapped emotions impact you in VERY real ways years after the initial trauma. That phenomenon is at the crux of vaginismus. After your brain creates an association of penetration to pain, you’re left …
My very first sexual penetration experience, at the age of 18 was a painful one. “Normal” as most would say for a first time. But that repeated itself the next time and the time after that… The pain was sharp and unexplainable. At first my body would just put up a wall, so I couldn’t …
For as long as I could remember, I was always afraid of my vagina. I was scared to touch it, scared to look at it, scared and terrified of it. Looking back, I feel like this fear was my body telling me that something was wrong. I remember watching an episode of Tyra Banks talk …
Have you been missing pleasure and sensuality in your life lately? I can imagine that… Vaginismus served as a bulldozer, uprooting and discarding all the sexual desire you had built up. And when all the sexual desire was gone, it sprinkled seeds of sadness and repulsion about intimacy altogether. Yeah, I’m speaking from personal experience. …
This post was “under construction” for quite some time. Every time I sat down to write this blog, I would have writer’s block and I didn’t really know how to start talking about it. I didn’t really know how to address it and I wasn’t sure how much I wanted to disclose about my life …
Has the word ‘vaginismus’ recently been introduced to your vocabulary? Vaginismus is a heavy word. For everything it brings and everything it takes away… What Is Vaginismus? Vaginismus is the involuntary spasm of the vagina (contraction of the pelvic floor muscles that tighten the vaginal entrance) that impairs your ability to engage in any form …
Sometimes, vaginismus might make you feel like you are all alone on your path to recovery. A path full of pain and uncertainty… Can you relate? You’re not alone! Other people have been where you are today. And they have overcome vaginismus. Now these vulva owners share 11 tips to help you in your journey. Here …
This is a continuation of a conversation that started with the 5 core principles of success (the secret sauce). If you haven’t been introduced to them yet, please begin here. Now that you’re all caught up… Let’s close the gap between theory and reality and actually make a difference in your life. To do that, let’s …