Over the last 5 years of supporting fellow vaginismus sisters in claiming their sexual liberation, I’ve gotten familiar with various incredible sexual health and wellness brands!
I’ve compiled a list of trusted brands and the Black Friday deals you can be on the look-out for.
Feel free to message me @vaginismus.sisters on Instagram if you’re looking for some personalized guidance on what to purchase. I would be happy to help.
And dive into the Products category on the blog for individual reviews of some of the products that I have had the pleasure of trying! (Literally!)
Some of my favourites are:
- How Your Lubricant May Be Messing Up Your Vagina
- My Parents Gifted Me A Set Of Dilators To Help With Vaginismus… But I Wish I Got Ones Like These Instead
- What Is Internal Trigger Point Release Of The Pelvic Floor?
- Breast Massage For Sexual Healing And Getting Your Libido Back
- Affordable Dilators?
- Crystals For Pelvic Pain Healing And Trigger Point Release
- 9 Sex Positions For Transitioning To Penetrative Sex
- How The ‘Darkness’ Of Your Sexual Desires Can Shed Light On Vaginismus
- Uber Slippery Lubricant
- Come As You Are – Perfect, As You Always Have Been
- Getting Comfortable With The Penis
- What Vaginal Reflexology Has To Do With Sexual Liberation
- Emotional Healing For Vaginismus Through Massage
And now for the brand I trust..
Dilators and Pelvic Wands For Exploring Intimacy And Sex
Intimate Rose is committed to helping vulva owners overcome sensitive health issues, remove the taboo nature of these topics and feel their best.
Their dilators and pelvic wands were designed by a Pelvic Floor Specialist, who entered this field after a life-changing personal accident.
- Use promo code: KATRIN
- You’ll receive $5 off your order
For Black Friday, Intimate Rose is offering $5 off all orders up to $50 (min. $20 purchase), $10 off all orders up to $100 and $20 off all orders over $100. No additional code necessary. Discount applied at at checkout.
Soul Source was founded to meet the needs of vulva owners undergoing progressive dilation therapy.
Their dilators were designed by a surgeon, gynaecologist and sex therapist who wanted high quality and comfortable dilators for their patients. They are made of 100% silicone rubber.
- Use promo code: WITHLOVE
- You’ll receive 5% off your order
For Black Friday, Soul Source always does something special, but we don’t know what it is yet!
BioMoi has a mission to have a profound impact on the health and sexual comfort of vulva owners, from childbirth to menopause, from illness to traumas.
BioMoi provides the only vaginal dilators made from antimicrobial silicone designed to provide a long lasting protection against the negative effects of microbes.
- Use promo code: WITHLOVE
- You’ll receive 10% off your order
For Black Friday, BioMoi is offering up to 35% off! No additional code necessary. Discount already applied to the price shown.
VuVatech is dedicated to helping vulva owners with pelvic pain.
Tara, its founder, suffered from vulvodynia for 4 years. With previous positive experience using magnets to reduce back and neck nerve pain after a car accident, she had the idea to incorporate neodymium magnets into a dilator set for pelvic pain.
- Use promo code: KATRINWITHLOVE
- You’ll receive 10% off your order!
For Black Friday, VuVatech is offering 20% off. No additional code necessary. Discount already applied to the price shown.
Milli is committed to enabling sexual performance and confidence in intimacy, one millimeter at a time.
Its team created a gentle, gradually expanding vaginal trainer that is comfortable, convenient, and affordable.
- Use promo code: MILLI4HER25
- You’ll receive $25 off your order!
For Black Friday, Milli is offering $75 off! Use code giftforme23! at checkout.
OHNUT is an intimate wearable redefining painful sex.
This is the first feel-good buffer designed to be stackable, allowing you to customize how deep penetration goes.
Set it, forget it, and play.
For Black Friday, OHNUT is offering 10% off everything, 15% off when you spend $100+, 25% off when you spend $150+ and 35% off when you spend $200+! No additional code necessary. Discount applied at checkout.
MedAmour is passionate about sexual health and recognizes its importance in our overall quality of life.
At MedAmour, you’ll find information on sexual health conditions and curated products that can help you cope, recover, and renew your passion.
- Use promo code: KATRINWITHLOVE
- You’ll receive $10 off any order of $50 or more and free shipping on orders over $55!
For Black Friday, MedAmour always does something special, but we don’t know what it is yet!
Crystal Toys For Exploring Intimacy And Sex
Gemstone Yoni is dedicated to spiritually nourishing vulva owners through crystal wellness.
Alexis, its founder, allowed crystals to help her transform her life for the better, so she made it her mission to supply others the chance at life changing gems too.
- Use promo code: KATRINWITHLOVE
- You’ll receive 15% off your order
For Black Friday, Gemstone Yoni always does something special, but we don’t know what it is yet!
Chakrubs is sex toys made from natural crystal that bring a sense of sacredness to your playtime.
Vanessa, its creator, was born with a condition where the inner labia of her vagina were closed and grew up with a sense of embarrassment about her sexuality. After she experienced the healing power of crystals, she felt a calling to bring it to the world.
For Black Friday, Chakrubs is offering 40% off yoni eggs and 25% off everything else!
WAANDS sees sexuality is a channel for awakening and actualizing your full potential.
Courtney, its founder, is a courageous guide and forever-student on the fruitful path of sexual and spiritual awakening.
For Black Friday, WAANDS is having their biggest sale of the year at 25% off! Use codes BLACKFRIDAY2023 and CYBERMONDAY2023 at checkout.
Yoni Pleasure Palace is all about radical self acceptance, feminine expression and being vulnerable, even if your voice trembles and your body shakes.
With her boutique selling crystal sex toys, Rosie challenges societal norms and is leading the way in normalizing nudity and female sexual pleasure.
- Use promo code: KATRINWITHLOVE
- You’ll receive 10% off your order
For Black Friday, Yoni Pleasure Palace always does something special, but we don’t know what it is yet!
Bliss Yoni Eggs believes in love and healing. They believe that a blissful yoni is a blissful person.
This store is driven by the passion to share the rich history and myriad benefits of yoni eggs.
- Use promo code: KATRINWITHLOVE
- You’ll receive 15% off your order
For Black Friday, Bliss Yoni Eggs always does something special, but we don’t know what it is yet!
Other Toys For Exploring Intimacy And Sex
Dame is committed to closing the “pleasure gap” in the bedroom – the difference between 91% of penis owners experiencing orgasm during sex versus 39% of vulva owners.
To do so, a credentialed sexologist and an established engineer joined forces to create the phenomenal sex toys they couldn’t find on the market
- Use promo code: IKNOWKATRIN
- You’ll receive 15% off your order
For Black Friday, Dame always does something special, but we don’t know what it is yet!
Betty’s Toy Box was founded on one core idea – that sex should be enjoyed without reservation, judgment, or guilt.
They want to encourage you to enjoy your sexuality, to play, to experiment and they believe that every one of us has a little bit of naughty inside just begging to be let out.
Check out the collection of relevant toys I like, featured under the Sexperts Curated Collections section.
- Use promo code: KATRINWITHLOVE
- You’ll receive 10% off your order
For Black Friday, Betty’s Toy Box is offering 25% off on select 5-star reviewed products including bestsellers.
Spectrum Boutique is a sex-positive toy store that has a no-nonsense approach to sexuality and sexual education.
Their selection of toys and personal care products are 100% body safe and carefully curated by Zoë Ligon, a celebrated sex educator, journalist and “Dildo Duchess”.
They welcome all identities, curiosities, and experience levels!
For Black Friday, is Spectrum Boutique is offering 40% off on your favourite sex toy brands.
Lovehoney is committed to helping you to celebrate and explore your sexuality, whatever your tastes.
This store creates a comfortable, couple-friendly online space which appeals to all sexualities, genders and relationship types.
For Black Friday, Lovehoney is offering up to 70% off while supplies last!
Le Wand is a premium brand of personal vibrating massagers that bring unparalleled quality to a notoriously sketchy industry.
It’s designed with pleasure in mind for all bodies.
- Use promo code: KATRINWITHLOVE
- You’ll receive 25% off your order
For Black Friday, Le Wand always does something special, but we don’t know what it is yet!
Bijoux Indiscrets is dedicated to helping you discover your body and what you like and how you like it.
They strongly believe that being sexy is an attitude and it’s up to you to claim your pleasure! Find inspiration for your pleasure sessions with their pleasure toys and accessories.
For Black Friday, Bijoux Indiscrets is offering 20% off for the whole store, or 25% off for those who subscribe to their email list.
Sh! is the first women’s sex shop in the UK, founded in 1992.
The Sh! team is committed to creating a welcoming, honest and informative environment, where people could comfortably talk about sex and sex toys… Their mission is to inspire every woman to embrace her true sexual self.
For Black Friday, Sh! is offering a Mystery Sex Toy Box!
Ann Summers is a UK-based empire that stands for sexual liberation, experimentation and mind-blowing satisfaction.
The Ann Summers team encourages sexual awakening and female empowerment and has been on this mission for over 40 years.
For Black Friday, Ann Summers is offering up to 50% off every single thing.
LELO is driven by an insatiable curiosity and a desire to explore and refine the space where digital technology and human sensation intersect.
It has established a heritage based on quality, unexpected innovation, and a curiosity for new sensations.
For Black Friday, LELO is offering up to 60% off and free LELO Liquid Lipstick!
Lubricants, Feminine Hygiene Products
Good Clean Love has been devoted to health and well-being since 2003. Their patented, Bio Match products are pH-balancing, and their organic personal lubricants are 100% iso-osmotic.
- Use promo code: KATRIN10
- You’ll receive 10% off your order
For Black Friday, Good Clean Love is offering 40% off when you spend $65+. Use code ‘holidaysavings’ at checkout.
Coconu is dedicated to helping couples increase their capacity for connection, intimacy and pleasure. All with the promise of naturally safe products developed by people who are obsessed with quality.
For Black Friday, Coconu is offering 30% off across the board! Use code ‘BF30’.
Überlube makes sex better for everyone by reducing friction, not sensation. It is a lightweight silicone lubricant with long-lasting performance that doesn’t leave a sticky residue.
- Use promo code: KATRINWITHLOVE
- You’ll receive 10% off your order
For Black Friday, Überlube always does something special, but we don’t know what it is yet!
Exploring Benefits Of Hemp Seed Oil
Birch + Fog offers plant-powered wellness essentials designed to nourish your body and believes that a plant-powered lifestyle is as much about wellness as it is about indulgence; as much about pleasure as it is about healing.
- Use promo code: KATRINWITHLOVE
- You’ll receive $20 off your first order
For Black Friday, Birch + Fog always does something special, but we don’t know what it is yet!
HighOnLove introduces a sensuous fusion of superior grade hemp seed oil and all-natural ingredients made to awaken the senses, redefine intimacy and revolutionize the way you love.
- Use promo code: KATRINWITHLOVE
- You’ll receive 15% off your order
For Black Friday, HighOnLove always does something special, but we don’t know what it is yet!
Virtual Pleasure Tools
CHEEX is an online platform for sexual entertainment and education, that believes in exploring sexual desires free from shame and taboo.
The community for everyone who would like to explore content that is inspiring and educational. Their pleasure films are made responsibly and strive to depict sexuality in a way that is close to reality: diverse, fun and consensual.
- Use promo code: KATRINWITHLOVE
- You’ll receive a free 14 day trial
For Black Friday, CHEEX always does something special, but we don’t know what it is yet!
Other Female Health and Wellness Tools
THINX are washable, reusable period underwear. They look and feel just like normal underwear.
The team is deeply committed to changing the narrative around menstrual health and bladder leaks by creating a solutions-oriented future that moves beyond taboos!
- Use the link above to get $10 off
For Black Friday, THINX is offering 25% off select styles. Use code ‘CYBER25’ at checkout.
Natural Cycles is an app that offers temperature-based contraception that’s free from hormones and side effects. It helps track your body temperature, learns the pattern of your unique cycle and works out your daily fertility status.
- Use promo code: KATRIN15
- You’ll receive 15% off the annual plan
For Black Friday, Natural Cycles always does something special, but we don’t know what it is yet!
Oura is a wearable smart ring and the Oura Membership works hand-in-hand with it to help you feel your best. As a member, you’ll experience continuous health monitoring and deeply personal guidance that improves over time as Oura gets to know your body.
- Use the link above to get $50 off
For Black Friday, Oura is offering $125 off!
Free Bleed are Luxurious waterproof blankets designed to protect your sheets, furniture, & home so you can enjoy lovemaking & free-bleeding without worrying about a mess.
- Use promo code: KATRIN15
- You’ll receive 15% off the annual plan
For Black Friday, Free Bleed is offering 25% off all waterproof blankets. Use code ‘BLACKFRIDAY2023’ at checkout.
And that’s it!
I know it can be difficult pulling the trigger on such pleasure-focused investments, since they are symbolic of a longer-term commitment to your journey that feels daunting..
And though any moment is a great time to invest in yourself, I hope that these discounts give you that extra nudge you may need to do so.
Here’s to your pleasure explorations!
– Katrin, with Love
