Dilating, Product Reviews

Affordable Dilators? (Blush Novelties Dilators Review)

Most dilators sets are PRETTY pricey! A wonderful human recently commented on a post of mine on my Instagram: “I wish I was able to afford dilators… I wish dilators were more accessible and less of a huge privilege.” Agreed. And if that’s you, I’m sorry they’re not in your budget right now. So are …

Testimonials, You're Not Alone

We Felt Understood. We Felt Empowered. We Felt Hope.

I’m 41. I found out I had vaginismus when I was 22, on my wedding night with my first husband.  I went through many doctors who didn’t know what was wrong with me… A hymenectomy because one doctor thought that a thick hymen was my problem, acupuncture, biofeedback, herbs, numbing creams, anxiety meds, kegels, dilators, the …

Guest Post, You're Not Alone

A Painful, What? – Gabrielle’s Hypertonic Pelvic Floor

On a seemingly ordinary day I woke up in my Connecticut apartment to an extreme burning and pain in my female organs… It literally felt like someone was taking a knife and shoving it up and down — a hot, hot knife to be exact. Naturally, I panicked, texted my boss and told her I …

Dilating, Giveaways, Lubrication, Pain Management, Product Reviews

CBD Lubricant To The Rescue (Bella CBD Aqua d’Amore Lubricant Review… And Giveaway)

Do you feel that burning… And the pain? What IF your lubricant actually helped your muscles relax and even soothed the stabbing sensation you feel? You see, lubricant to a set of dilators is like the cheese to a good bowl of macaroni. You can’t get enough of it. *If you’re asking yourself “What are …

Dilating, Intimacy, Product Reviews, Vibrators

How To Kip Up An Experience Of Pleasure With Dilating (Kip Vibrator Review)

You might not the type to just go out and buy a vibrator… I know I wasn’t. I was a bit curious about vibrators, but not enough to trek to a sex store for one or buy it online either. A part of me thought I just SHOULDN’T indulge in this sexual pleasure, especially with …

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6 Lessons Of The Vaginismus Journey – A Brave Soul’s Story Of Resilience

I struggled with vaginismus for as long as I can remember and did not find out about the existence of this condition until a couple of years ago. Growing up in a very religious and conservative family, I was never really encouraged to explore my body. I started worrying when I got my period and …

Intimacy, Product Reviews, Self-Care

Painting With Chocolate To Sweeten Your Sex Life? Even If You’re Bitter About Vaginismus…

What is the biggest disappointment you’ve experienced? One of the most memorable ones for me is feeling like a failure because I couldn’t go all the way in the bedroom. Vaginismus can do that to you… It can make you feel incomplete. Inadequate. A sorry definition of a human who couldn’t give her partner what …

Testimonials, You're Not Alone

With One Month Of Proper Guidance With Katrin I Overcame My Vaginismus Within A MONTH!

I am someone who has never used a tampon or had any vaginal checkups before my marriage. I got married in 2017 and had a very painful experience when I and my husband tried for PIV sex for the first time. It was very painful during penetration and penetration was almost impossible. I told my mom …

Intimacy, Kink, Product Reviews

How The ‘Darkness’ Of Your Sexual Desires Can Shed Light On Vaginismus

At its greatest level of intensity and domination, what does this picture scream to you? Deep down for you, this scene might be associated with naughtiness… Secrecy… Sexual arousal… Excitement! And even joy!! But do you also have a sense of guilt and shame attached to these positive emotions? You see… Similar to the 5 …