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The Way We Spoke Was Like We Already Knew Each Other

“Before our consultation I was really anxious and I have to admit even in the past weeks I was super anxious with the idea of sharing my experience, but it was really natural for me at the end.  The way we spoke was like we already knew each other and I didn’t feel uncomfortable at all!  Of …

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Welcoming Vaginismus – A Tiny Memoir: Fiamma’s Story

Many thanks to Victor Yrigoyen for the illustrations. Check out his website and Instagram. “For many, the psychological impact of vaginismus can be even more agonizing than the physical pain. The stigma of “virginity,” combined with the lacking mention of vaginismus in public dialogue, society’s insistence that “men need sex,” and the social pressure on women to have …

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I Was Able To Drop Into My Body And Feel Love And Compassion For Myself And My Journey

Thank you SO much for taking the time to chat with me the other day, I found it immensely helpful, supportive and enlightening!  When I saw your email saying consultation I immediately opened it and found there was an opening the NEXT day. It was totally divine timing with where I was at. I was getting …

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A Pleasure Practice To Help You Overcome Painful Sex And Shame Around Sexuality (Bijoux Indiscrets Horoscope Self Pleasure Kit Review… And Giveaway!)

I have to admit… I felt shame related to my sexuality pretty much my entire life ever since I could understand the concept. That’s why I rarely explored my own body and capacity for pleasure. And when I did, I felt grossed out to use my own fingers to touch my vulva… So I avoided …

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Vaginismus, Vulvodynia, Endometriosis And Uterus Didelphys – An Incredibly Tough Reality

Vaginismus is usually defined as pain related to a psychological reaction in which the woman associates sexual activity with pain and fear. There’s a so-called phobia of any penetration or in some cases, anything going near the vagina. Just the thought of penetration, or any attempted penetration, gives involuntary muscle spasms around the vaginal opening. …

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I Am Not Broken And I Now Have The Tools To Work Through Vaginismus

I have been struggling with vaginismus now for over two years. ​​Originally, I did not know that this was what it was. I did not have a name for it and I kind of just felt helpless. This year I decided to get to the bottom of it. I was taken for test after test, …

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From Anxiety About The Female Anatomy To Becoming A Midwife And Overcoming Vaginismus: Becky’s Story

When I was in primary school, around 10 years old we started to do some sex education lessons… In the first of these they showed us a cartoon video, in the video it showed a diagram of female anatomy and then the insertion of a tampon and how this looks from the inside. I remember …

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To Think That I Now Have My Own Success Story Is Unreal

I started seeing my current partner when I was 18 (I am now 24) and before this I had never had any sexual experiences… So I didn’t yet realize that I had vaginismus. There were signs – for example never being able to use tampons and never feeling comfortable with exploring my own body in …