Dilating, Intimacy, Product Reviews, Vibrators

Using Your Fingers For Pleasure

If you’re anything like me… You didn’t explore your body sexually very much during your life. For me… The times that I did engage in self-pleasure, I felt the need to rush this process. Like I was doing something unacceptable. Instead of surrendering into it, taking my time and approaching pleasure with the goal of …

Testimonials, You're Not Alone

Katrin Has Become My Mentor And Friend. She’s My Little Light!

I was the first… one-on-one client that is. I had endometriosis, I had a hysterectomy, I had phantom pains, I had painful sex. I just had pain. After all of the previous situations I figured pain was the norm and always would be the norm. One night, I was fussing around with the computer putting …

Healing, Intimacy, Kink, Product Reviews

What Does Surrender Have To Do With Vaginismus?

What’s ironic is that for many of us… The very thing that has kept us safe in the world is the thing we NEED to set aside in order to enjoy penetrative sex. That’s right. We’ve grown up in the world where having control over our external circumstances is what has kept us SAFE. That …

Testimonials, You're Not Alone

I Felt Seen And Heard

I first found Katrin’s work through purchasing her book and have since found her generously offered free material online so helpful. After having been diagnosed with lichen sclerosis as well as vaginismus, I started using dilators and found Katrin’s explanation of the emotional healing journey and visioning a life free of pain so helpful and …

Depression, Relationships

Depression Diary – Your Mission Should You Choose To Accept It

This piece was written a few years ago to share words of wisdom on how to effectively support someone experiencing depression. Be warned. You’ll sometimes be told that you’re outright a terrible support system, or that he would have preferred one method of support over the one you chose in his latest episode. And as …

Depression, Relationships

Depression Diary – The Other Side Of The Coin

This piece was written a few years ago, in the depth of trying to navigate my partner’s manic behaviour. The truth is… That some people only start living fully after being stripped of the life they once had and being forced to rebuild themselves from the ground up. Think freak accidents, devastating losses, intense moments …

Depression, Relationships

Depression Diary – The Waves Keep Coming

This piece was written a few years ago, in the depth of trying to process the slow but steady damage of my partner’s depressive episodes. Today, I realized that I had spent too much energy seeking his attention. Of course, I noticed this only after depleting my supply.  Sadly, my attempts were barely successful. Have …

Testimonials, You're Not Alone

It’s About Embracing Myself And Loving My Own Body

Thank you, Katrin, for your genuine desire to hear, see, and encourage others.  I had gotten married less than a year ago, and attempting PIV sex for the first time on our wedding night was excruciatingly painful and scary for me, and the night ended with us both emotionally hurt, turning away from each other, …