Dilating, Intimacy, Product Reviews, Vibrators

How To Kip Up An Experience Of Pleasure With Dilating (Kip Vibrator Review)

You might not the type to just go out and buy a vibrator… I know I wasn’t. I was a bit curious about vibrators, but not enough to trek to a sex store for one or buy it online either. A part of me thought I just SHOULDN’T indulge in this sexual pleasure, especially with …

Dilating, Lubrication, Product Reviews, Self-Care

How Your Lubricant May Be Messing Up Your Vagina

If you’re dealing with painful sex and vaginismus in particular, choosing the right lubricant is even MORE important than the right set of dilators. When it comes to your dilating practice, it’s highly recommended to put a liberal amount of lube on the dilator before you attempt to insert it. And keep in mind, an …

Guest Post, You're Not Alone

6 Lessons Of The Vaginismus Journey – A Brave Soul’s Story Of Resilience

I struggled with vaginismus for as long as I can remember and did not find out about the existence of this condition until a couple of years ago. Growing up in a very religious and conservative family, I was never really encouraged to explore my body. I started worrying when I got my period and …

Dilating, Product Reviews

Affordable Dilators? (Blush Novelties Dilators Review)

Most dilators sets are PRETTY pricey! A wonderful human recently commented on a post of mine on my Instagram: “I wish I was able to afford dilators… I wish dilators were more accessible and less of a huge privilege.” Agreed. And if that’s you, I’m sorry they’re not in your budget right now. So are …

Intimacy, Product Reviews, Self-Care

Painting With Chocolate To Sweeten Your Sex Life? Even If You’re Bitter About Vaginismus…

What is the biggest disappointment you’ve experienced? One of the most memorable ones for me is feeling like a failure because I couldn’t go all the way in the bedroom. Vaginismus can do that to you… It can make you feel incomplete. Inadequate. A sorry definition of a human who couldn’t give her partner what …

Testimonials

With One Month Of Proper Guidance With Katrin I Overcame My Vaginismus Within A MONTH!

I am someone who has never used a tampon or had any vaginal checkups before my marriage. I got married in 2017 and had a very painful experience when I and my husband tried for PIV sex for the first time. It was very painful during penetration and penetration was almost impossible. I told my mom …

Intimacy, Kink, Product Reviews

How The ‘Darkness’ Of Your Sexual Desires Can Shed Light On Vaginismus

At its greatest level of intensity and domination, what does this picture scream to you? Deep down for you, this scene might be associated with naughtiness… Secrecy… Sexual arousal… Excitement! And even joy!! But do you also have a sense of guilt and shame attached to these positive emotions? You see… Similar to the 5 …

Testimonials

Thankfully Katrin Made Me Motivated And Brave Enough To Go For It And It Was A Great Decision

For weeks I have never had the courage to really face the fight against vaginismus. I had bought dilators a few weeks ago but didn’t plan on using time any time soon.  But then I took a social media break and focused on myself for some time. I have followed Katrin’s Instagram account (@pain.free.and.intimate) for …