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This Was Exactly What I Needed To Put Me Back On Track

After years living with vaginismus, I am now in a phase of stagnation where I know I have made a lot of progress from when I first started on this healing journey, but I am still far from my ultimate goal: pain free and pleasurable penetration… I felt I needed a push to understand how …

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I Never Thought That I Would Get To This Point, Especially So Quickly. I Am Having Painless And Pleasurable Intercourse Now. This Program Was Exactly What I Needed.

Thank you so much for everything! I can finally say that I am free! I am so happy and so grateful for everything! Thank you for putting together this beautiful program! I would not have been able to do it without it!  I never thought that I would get to this point, especially so quickly. I am …

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The Putting Vaginismus In The Past Course Has Helped Me So Much

“I would just like to say I am glad I have found you! The Putting Vaginismus In The Past course has helped me so much. I am so much more positive about vaginismus and I feel I can overcome it. It’s made me think about everything so much differently and for someone who was too …

Intimacy, Product Reviews, Sensuality

Master The Love Languages To Improve Your Love Life

Love life. Societal conditioning has shaped us to think sex as soon as we hear ‘love life’. Similarly, as soon as we hear sex, we think penetrative sex – that’s how we’ve understood it as a result of the media and our sex education (the little bit we received). But… Sex is SO much more …

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The Way We Spoke Was Like We Already Knew Each Other

“Before our consultation I was really anxious and I have to admit even in the past weeks I was super anxious with the idea of sharing my experience, but it was really natural for me at the end.  The way we spoke was like we already knew each other and I didn’t feel uncomfortable at all!  Of …

Guest Post, You're Not Alone

Welcoming Vaginismus – A Tiny Memoir: Fiamma’s Story

Many thanks to Victor Yrigoyen for the illustrations. Check out his website and Instagram. “For many, the psychological impact of vaginismus can be even more agonizing than the physical pain. The stigma of “virginity,” combined with the lacking mention of vaginismus in public dialogue, society’s insistence that “men need sex,” and the social pressure on women to have …

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I Was Able To Drop Into My Body And Feel Love And Compassion For Myself And My Journey

Thank you SO much for taking the time to chat with me the other day, I found it immensely helpful, supportive and enlightening!  When I saw your email saying consultation I immediately opened it and found there was an opening the NEXT day. It was totally divine timing with where I was at. I was getting …

Dilating, Giveaways, Intimacy, Product Reviews, Vibrators

A Pleasure Practice To Help You Overcome Painful Sex And Shame Around Sexuality (Bijoux Indiscrets Horoscope Self Pleasure Kit Review… And Giveaway!)

I have to admit… I felt shame related to my sexuality pretty much my entire life ever since I could understand the concept. That’s why I rarely explored my own body and capacity for pleasure. And when I did, I felt grossed out to use my own fingers to touch my vulva… So I avoided …

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Vaginismus, Vulvodynia, Endometriosis And Uterus Didelphys – An Incredibly Tough Reality

Vaginismus is usually defined as pain related to a psychological reaction in which the woman associates sexual activity with pain and fear. There’s a so-called phobia of any penetration or in some cases, anything going near the vagina. Just the thought of penetration, or any attempted penetration, gives involuntary muscle spasms around the vaginal opening. …

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I Am Not Broken And I Now Have The Tools To Work Through Vaginismus

I have been struggling with vaginismus now for over two years. ​​Originally, I did not know that this was what it was. I did not have a name for it and I kind of just felt helpless. This year I decided to get to the bottom of it. I was taken for test after test, …