Thank you so much for everything! I can finally say that I am free!
I am so happy and so grateful for everything! Thank you for putting together this beautiful program! I would not have been able to do it without it!
I never thought that I would get to this point, especially so quickly. I am having painless and pleasurable intercourse now. This program was exactly what I needed.
I think the most valuable part was the emotional aspect of the healing journey. I am not someone who typically likes to focus on the past. I like to just deal with the events that happen throughout life and just move forward. This allowed me to listen to what you had to say and really sit with how these things could have affected me.
I remember I had your videos playing when I was getting ready for work and you were talking about the different possible causes of vaginismus and something just clicked for me. I had an aha moment where I realized that every interaction with men that I had been having in the past was fear based. I realized that even when my current partner (who is amazing, caring, and kind) reaches over to touch my hand, my whole body was tensing. I didn't realize that this was happening or even how deep the trauma I had experienced in my past was affecting me now. It was from this moment on that began to have success with the whole process at a faster rate.
I did absolutely everything you told me to because I felt helpless. I trusted that you knew what I was going through and that even if I couldn't see how the things you were saying would help, I still did them. I did find that once I began to have small progress the progress began to get more frequent. I dedicated about 1-2 hours a day to my stretching, meditating and dilating practice. I won't say that it was easy, and it wasn't necessarily all that fun, but it wasn't by any means as hard as I thought it was going to be.
And the entire process from the time I invested in the program to now having painless and pleasurable penetrative sex took 2 months and 1 week!
I remember when I started I really, really did not believe that it was going to get better. I had just accepted that this was my life and I had to live with it this way.
THANK YOU SO MUCH for what you do. Thank you for being the one who has the courage to reach out and be a helping hand to strangers. You've helped me truly change my life.
- Paige (23 years old, Ontario, Canada)