Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can wear
Let’s be real… For those of us who have experienced pain before, transitioning from your dilating process to penetrative sex is a leap of faith of its own. You’re already making a wonderful amount of progress in your both your emotional and physical healing journeys, AS WELL AS the often overlooked adventure of finding and …
If you can relate to any of this, we have a lot in common! Perhaps you had resistance to having a self-pleasure practice.. I mean, we have all grown up in a shame-steeped culture around sex and pleasure! Or maybe you ripped the bandaid and you tried to be adventurous like your girlfriend or partner …
I’ve always been so curious about rabbit toys. Experiencing vaginismus makes finding a rabbit toy even harder. I could never find a rabbit toy on the market that was small enough for my vagina to accommodate. After consulting with Katrin, we found one of the smaller options out there on Betty’s Toy Box. Admittedly still …
A friend of mine with endometriosis, a comrade in the experience of pelvic pain, gave me advice that changed the game for me. Orgasming before penetration can help reduce pain. An orgasm can ensure that the muscles are more relaxed and in many cases, also that the body is more lubricated. Basically, the body is …
Before we ever talk about introducing penetration again through something like dilating, the emotional healing journey to find safety in your mind and body again is crucial… And so is rekindling intimate connection with yourself and with your partner! Adding fun, play and pleasure back into turn-on is a MUST! As part of rekindling that …
If you’re anything like me… You didn’t explore your body sexually very much during your life. For me… The times that I did engage in self-pleasure, I felt the need to rush this process. Like I was doing something unacceptable. Instead of surrendering into it, taking my time and approaching pleasure with the goal of …
Okay, you know how when you see something odd looking, you just have to try it? That’s how I feel about this bug-looking vibrator. But how is a vibrator even relevant in the journey past painful sex? You see.. Clitoral stimulation can exponentially speed up the re-wiring of the brain and help you transform pain …
I have to admit… I felt shame related to my sexuality pretty much my entire life ever since I could understand the concept. That’s why I rarely explored my own body and capacity for pleasure. And when I did, I felt grossed out to use my own fingers to touch my vulva… So I avoided …
The feeling like you need to pee is often an uncomfortable one. The reason for this sensation is that during your dilating practice, you’re hitting your G-spot and hence pushing on the bladder that is beside it! I invite you to empty your bladder just before… And to explore the G-spot further, in order to …
After working through vaginismus and finally being able to achieve PAIN-FREE penetration.. Let’s talk about turning pain-free into PLEASURABLE! If penetration wasn’t going to be pleasurable… The goal ideally is to experience PLEASURE in a sexual experience, both externally and internally. How so? Partly by exploring the erogenous zones inside the vagina! One of the …
![[part 2/2] This weekend..
I surprised my man with a comedy club adventure date, gifted my nephew his favourite toy (he adores swords! 😅), dressed up all classy to enjoy the Lord Of The Rings orchestra, roller skated with friends for the first time ever, tested my limits with a polar dip and deeply rested at the sauna.
This month..
My partner becomes completely location independent at his job, I continue my heart's work as part of the Liberated & In Love Academy here and my vaginismus coaching over @vaginismus.sisters, AND we move out and embark on a 3 month adventure in South America!
This year..
We know that no matter what challenges arise, we will be fulfilled and wealthy (within and on the surface), because we have found safety in surrender and confidence that everything will be more than okay.
This life..
I have allowed the Liberated & In Love Woman to run the show. 👄
And helping you access her within YOU is exactly what I'm here for.
In love, relationships, sxx and biz.
And yes, all of those are incredibly interconnected!
👑 🌹
What intentions does the Liberated & In Love part of YOU have for your life - what does she want to create this weekend, month, or year? 💬 👇🏻
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![Having to choose between two incredibly important things has NEVER sat well with me. 🚫
Right after university, I skipped on super fun social events in favour of preparing for my 13 hours of CPA exams (yep, my first career was as an accountant!)
In a previous relationship, I let friendships become distant because I was too busy getting my sxx, love and relationships coaching off the ground..
In my corporate career, I traded time with family for working 16 hours days.. AND in the summer, I went without pay so that I could spend 2 months in Europe. (I hadn't yet found a way to travel WHILE I got paid..)
But I discovered a bitter truth..
⚠️ Wealth on the outside means nothing if you don't have wealth within.
And later, a liberating truth - we are far more capable than our schooling, familial and societal conditioning once led us to believe❣️
Today, I am both..
👑 Creating a legacy that inspires the Liberated & In Love Woman within you.. Guiding you in your deep emotional, relational and sxxual growth..
AND
🌹 Enjoying my own incredible relationship and love life! Having wayy more 'me time' than I would have had I continued climbing the corporate ladder.
I no longer feel like I have to choose!
And you too CAN create a life free of limitations.
Yes, some sacrifice IS a part of the equation for certain periods of time.. But ultimately, you can have an abundance of free time, love, play (and as a byproduct also money).
There should be no sacrificing related to values in your life that you absolutely stand for! 💃🏼
What it takes is a brave decision to embody the Liberated & In Love Woman that already exists within you and is asking you to surrender to her leadership.
By stepping into your innate power, you can to take yourself anywhere you want.
And the possibilities are endless! ❤️
[Continued in part 2 tomorrow..]
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