How Your Lubricant May Be Messing Up Your Vagina

If you’re dealing with painful sex and vaginismus in particular, choosing the right lubricant is even MORE important than the right set of dilators. When it comes to your dilating practice, it’s highly recommended to put a liberal amount of lube on the dilator before you attempt to insert it. And keep in mind, an …

Painting With Chocolate To Sweeten Your Sex Life? Even If You’re Bitter About Vaginismus…

What is the biggest disappointment you’ve experienced? One of the most memorable ones for me is feeling like a failure because I couldn’t go all the way in the bedroom. Vaginismus can do that to you… It can make you feel incomplete. Inadequate. A sorry definition of a human who couldn’t give her partner what …

The PMS Chronicles

Pissed off and in pain. That’s the slogan of the PMS chronicles. Have you found yourself debilitated by the pain of pre-menstrual cramps? Unable to go about your day as you planned, because your body is just not co-operating? This lack of co-operation once a month can be quite frustrating, especially when your body is …

A Tiny (And Tickly) Tip To Help You Reconnect With Your Sexuality

Have you been missing pleasure and sensuality in your life lately? I can imagine that… Vaginismus served as a bulldozer, uprooting and discarding all the sexual desire you had built up. And when all the sexual desire was gone, it sprinkled seeds of sadness and repulsion about intimacy altogether. Yeah, I’m speaking from personal experience. …

A Hint Of Pleasure In The Midst Of Painful Sex (HighOnLove Stimulating O’Gel Review… And Giveaway!)

For many vulva owners struggling with painful sex and vaginismus in particular, a daily practice with dilators is often part of the healing journey… *If you’re asking yourself “What are dilators?”, you might first want to read about how dilating can help on your journey in healing vaginismus. But dilating can be an incredibly uncomfortable …

The Magic Of Body Massage For Overcoming Vaginismus

A few weeks ago, my fiancé had surprised me with a massage table. Early this morning, my wake-up call was his warm embrace, followed by a whisper in my ear… “If you get your gorgeous body on the massage table in the next 15 minutes, you’re in for a treat.” Mmm-hmm. Am I dreaming? With …