Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can wear
The feeling like you need to pee is often an uncomfortable one. The reason for this sensation is that during your dilating practice, you’re hitting your G-spot and hence pushing on the bladder that is beside it! I invite you to empty your bladder just before… And to explore the G-spot further, in order to …
You might not the type to just go out and buy a vibrator… I know I wasn’t. I was a bit curious about vibrators, but not enough to trek to a sex store for one or buy it online either. A part of me thought I just SHOULDN’T indulge in this sexual pleasure, especially with …
What is the biggest disappointment you’ve experienced? One of the most memorable ones for me is feeling like a failure because I couldn’t go all the way in the bedroom. Vaginismus can do that to you… It can make you feel incomplete. Inadequate. A sorry definition of a human who couldn’t give her partner what …
At its greatest level of intensity and domination, what does this picture scream to you? Deep down for you, this scene might be associated with naughtiness… Secrecy… Sexual arousal… Excitement! And even joy!! But do you also have a sense of guilt and shame attached to these positive emotions? You see… Similar to the 5 …
For many vulva owners struggling with painful sex and vaginismus in particular, a daily practice with dilators is often part of the healing journey… *If you’re asking yourself “What are dilators?”, you might first want to read about how dilating can help on your journey in healing vaginismus. But minty gum?! Let me back up …
Experiences are the essence of life and wisdom… That’s why I urge you to seek out mentors in life, seek those people who are further ahead on the same path you’re on. People who have been where you are now. And have moved ahead with joy and excitement. People with relevant experience! And there are …
Life is jam-packed with emotions! You experience traumatic events in life, and your stores emotions and memories from them within yourself… These trapped emotions impact you in VERY real ways years after the initial trauma. That phenomenon is at the crux of vaginismus. After your brain creates an association of penetration to pain, you’re left …
My very first sexual penetration experience, at the age of 18 was a painful one. “Normal” as most would say for a first time. But that repeated itself the next time and the time after that… The pain was sharp and unexplainable. At first my body would just put up a wall, so I couldn’t …
I’m laying on my bed with a wand resting in my vagina. I grit my teeth and find myself holding my breath… Then I remember to breathe through the discomfort and to allow my body to relax. “This will be so worth it”, I think. I already know that this technique has given me incredible …
Have you been missing pleasure and sensuality in your life lately? I can imagine that… Vaginismus served as a bulldozer, uprooting and discarding all the sexual desire you had built up. And when all the sexual desire was gone, it sprinkled seeds of sadness and repulsion about intimacy altogether. Yeah, I’m speaking from personal experience. …
![[part 2/2] This weekend..
I surprised my man with a comedy club adventure date, gifted my nephew his favourite toy (he adores swords! 😅), dressed up all classy to enjoy the Lord Of The Rings orchestra, roller skated with friends for the first time ever, tested my limits with a polar dip and deeply rested at the sauna.
This month..
My partner becomes completely location independent at his job, I continue my heart's work as part of the Liberated & In Love Academy here and my vaginismus coaching over @vaginismus.sisters, AND we move out and embark on a 3 month adventure in South America!
This year..
We know that no matter what challenges arise, we will be fulfilled and wealthy (within and on the surface), because we have found safety in surrender and confidence that everything will be more than okay.
This life..
I have allowed the Liberated & In Love Woman to run the show. 👄
And helping you access her within YOU is exactly what I'm here for.
In love, relationships, sxx and biz.
And yes, all of those are incredibly interconnected!
👑 🌹
What intentions does the Liberated & In Love part of YOU have for your life - what does she want to create this weekend, month, or year? 💬 👇🏻
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![Having to choose between two incredibly important things has NEVER sat well with me. 🚫
Right after university, I skipped on super fun social events in favour of preparing for my 13 hours of CPA exams (yep, my first career was as an accountant!)
In a previous relationship, I let friendships become distant because I was too busy getting my sxx, love and relationships coaching off the ground..
In my corporate career, I traded time with family for working 16 hours days.. AND in the summer, I went without pay so that I could spend 2 months in Europe. (I hadn't yet found a way to travel WHILE I got paid..)
But I discovered a bitter truth..
⚠️ Wealth on the outside means nothing if you don't have wealth within.
And later, a liberating truth - we are far more capable than our schooling, familial and societal conditioning once led us to believe❣️
Today, I am both..
👑 Creating a legacy that inspires the Liberated & In Love Woman within you.. Guiding you in your deep emotional, relational and sxxual growth..
AND
🌹 Enjoying my own incredible relationship and love life! Having wayy more 'me time' than I would have had I continued climbing the corporate ladder.
I no longer feel like I have to choose!
And you too CAN create a life free of limitations.
Yes, some sacrifice IS a part of the equation for certain periods of time.. But ultimately, you can have an abundance of free time, love, play (and as a byproduct also money).
There should be no sacrificing related to values in your life that you absolutely stand for! 💃🏼
What it takes is a brave decision to embody the Liberated & In Love Woman that already exists within you and is asking you to surrender to her leadership.
By stepping into your innate power, you can to take yourself anywhere you want.
And the possibilities are endless! ❤️
[Continued in part 2 tomorrow..]
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