Confidence is the sexiest thing a woman can wear
Let’s be real… For those of us who have experienced pain before, transitioning from your dilating process to penetrative sex is a leap of faith of its own. You’re already making a wonderful amount of progress in your both your emotional and physical healing journeys, AS WELL AS the often overlooked adventure of finding and …
I have found though that many of us experience a certain level of discomfort related to the penis. Whether it’s the shape itself… Or our perception this body part has been tainted by various factors – fearful and painful experiences of the past, or simply what we’ve heard about the penis being used as a …
I clearly remember… As I went deeper and deeper down the slippery slope of pain, my desire for sexual acts diminished. I mean of course it would! Penetrative sex was at first impossible for me. When I tried to force it and push through the initial physical barrier, it became incredibly painful. Think a freshly …
You’ve probably read plenty about the vulva and vagina in the process of overcoming vaginismus… The ancient sex wisdom of Taoism confirms the intricate connection between the genitals and optimal functions of other organs and glands in the body. Creating harmony in these sacred areas of your body really is important in relieving tension and …
If you’re anything like me… You didn’t explore your body sexually very much during your life. For me… The times that I did engage in self-pleasure, I felt the need to rush this process. Like I was doing something unacceptable. Instead of surrendering into it, taking my time and approaching pleasure with the goal of …
What’s ironic is that for many of us… The very thing that has kept us safe in the world is the thing we NEED to set aside in order to enjoy penetrative sex. That’s right. We’ve grown up in the world where having control over our external circumstances is what has kept us SAFE. That …
So you have gone through the entire healing journey so far like a champ! You have SO much to be proud of yourself already. You’ve done the emotional healing that is so necessary to even considering any of the physical healing pieces. You’ve found and embraced your authentic sexual self and have learned to celebrate …
Love life. Societal conditioning has shaped us to think sex as soon as we hear ‘love life’. Similarly, as soon as we hear sex, we think penetrative sex – that’s how we’ve understood it as a result of the media and our sex education (the little bit we received). But… Sex is SO much more …
I have to admit… I felt shame related to my sexuality pretty much my entire life ever since I could understand the concept. That’s why I rarely explored my own body and capacity for pleasure. And when I did, I felt grossed out to use my own fingers to touch my vulva… So I avoided …
Unlike penis-owners, vagina-owners face a really significant downside. See, a man… Literally HOLDS his penis to pee standing up right. He can easily WATCH his penis during self-pleasure if he chooses to. Heck, he even touches it regularly through the day to adjust. At least in the media, men are portrayed comparing their junk in …
![[part 2/2] This weekend..
I surprised my man with a comedy club adventure date, gifted my nephew his favourite toy (he adores swords! 😅), dressed up all classy to enjoy the Lord Of The Rings orchestra, roller skated with friends for the first time ever, tested my limits with a polar dip and deeply rested at the sauna.
This month..
My partner becomes completely location independent at his job, I continue my heart's work as part of the Liberated & In Love Academy here and my vaginismus coaching over @vaginismus.sisters, AND we move out and embark on a 3 month adventure in South America!
This year..
We know that no matter what challenges arise, we will be fulfilled and wealthy (within and on the surface), because we have found safety in surrender and confidence that everything will be more than okay.
This life..
I have allowed the Liberated & In Love Woman to run the show. 👄
And helping you access her within YOU is exactly what I'm here for.
In love, relationships, sxx and biz.
And yes, all of those are incredibly interconnected!
👑 🌹
What intentions does the Liberated & In Love part of YOU have for your life - what does she want to create this weekend, month, or year? 💬 👇🏻
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![Having to choose between two incredibly important things has NEVER sat well with me. 🚫
Right after university, I skipped on super fun social events in favour of preparing for my 13 hours of CPA exams (yep, my first career was as an accountant!)
In a previous relationship, I let friendships become distant because I was too busy getting my sxx, love and relationships coaching off the ground..
In my corporate career, I traded time with family for working 16 hours days.. AND in the summer, I went without pay so that I could spend 2 months in Europe. (I hadn't yet found a way to travel WHILE I got paid..)
But I discovered a bitter truth..
⚠️ Wealth on the outside means nothing if you don't have wealth within.
And later, a liberating truth - we are far more capable than our schooling, familial and societal conditioning once led us to believe❣️
Today, I am both..
👑 Creating a legacy that inspires the Liberated & In Love Woman within you.. Guiding you in your deep emotional, relational and sxxual growth..
AND
🌹 Enjoying my own incredible relationship and love life! Having wayy more 'me time' than I would have had I continued climbing the corporate ladder.
I no longer feel like I have to choose!
And you too CAN create a life free of limitations.
Yes, some sacrifice IS a part of the equation for certain periods of time.. But ultimately, you can have an abundance of free time, love, play (and as a byproduct also money).
There should be no sacrificing related to values in your life that you absolutely stand for! 💃🏼
What it takes is a brave decision to embody the Liberated & In Love Woman that already exists within you and is asking you to surrender to her leadership.
By stepping into your innate power, you can to take yourself anywhere you want.
And the possibilities are endless! ❤️
[Continued in part 2 tomorrow..]
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