Helping you put vaginismus in the past, for good
Unlike penis-owners, vagina-owners face a really significant downside. See, a man… Literally HOLDS his penis to pee standing up right. He can easily WATCH his penis during self-pleasure if he chooses to. Heck, he even touches it regularly through the day to adjust. At least in the media, men are portrayed comparing their junk in …
I shared my journey with you about vaginismus not too long ago… Well, I just wanted to say that I finally had pain free sex! Just about a month ago it was so hard and painful to put a tampon in and I felt unworthy afterwards. I felt like I was less and I felt …
The feeling like you need to pee is often an uncomfortable one! The reason for this sensation is that during your dilating practice is two-fold.. You’re either hitting your G-spot and hence pushing on the urethra that’s closely in front of it.. Or you’re stimulating the A-spot, which lies approximately one or two inches deeper …
I always had the feeling that I am late in my life. I was one of the last girls who got their period, my body started to grow when everybody else was already dressed up “girly” and sexy. I had the impression that I was quite invisible for the majority of boys. My school classes were …
Most dilators sets are PRETTY pricey! A wonderful human recently commented on a post of mine on my Instagram: “I wish I was able to afford dilators… I wish dilators were more accessible and less of a huge privilege.” Agreed. And if that’s you, I’m sorry they’re not in your budget right now. So are …
After working through vaginismus and finally being able to achieve PAIN-FREE penetration.. Let’s talk about turning pain-free into PLEASURABLE! If penetration wasn’t going to be pleasurable… The goal ideally is to experience PLEASURE in a sexual experience, both externally and internally. How so? Partly by exploring the erogenous zones inside the vagina! One of the …
I’m 41. I found out I had vaginismus when I was 22, on my wedding night with my first husband. I went through many doctors who didn’t know what was wrong with me… A hymenectomy because one doctor thought that a thick hymen was my problem, acupuncture, biofeedback, herbs, numbing creams, anxiety meds, kegels, dilators, the …
Do you feel that burning… And the pain? What IF your lubricant actually helped your muscles relax and even soothed the stabbing sensation you feel? You see, lubricant to a set of dilators is like the cheese to a good bowl of macaroni. You can’t get enough of it. *If you’re asking yourself “What are …
You might not the type to just go out and buy a vibrator… I know I wasn’t. I was a bit curious about vibrators, but not enough to trek to a sex store for one or buy it online either. A part of me thought I just SHOULDN’T indulge in this sexual pleasure, especially with …
5 years ago, if I watched this video, I would have anger pulsing and flowing through me. 😡 Anger blanketed towards our societal experiences as humans in the world. The expectations that are thrown at both vulva and penis owners (and especially vulva owners as ‘sex symbols’) – expectations of who we SHOULD be in our lives. …